Responding to a Child’s Disclosure of Abuse

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Getting Help for an Abused Child. By Eric Hollis.

When a child discloses sexual abuse, it will always be distressing. It is natural for adults to feel at a loss to know how best to respond.

The information provided here covers how to listen and respond to a child who tells you, or hints in even a vague way, that she/he or someone they know

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